Friday, November 22, 2013

Save The Date Sample Wording

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A “Save The Date” card is not necessary, but has grown in popularity in recent years.  This notification card allows your guests to make travel arrangements, plan for time off work, schedule sitters if you are not allowing children at your wedding reception and share in the excitement of your upcoming wedding.
Who to notify.  Because you are asking recipients to save the date, only send these notices to people who have made the cut for the final guest list.
When to send.  Generally, save the date cards are sent out six months in advance.  If you are planning a wedding that requires travel for many of your guests, you may want to send these out nine months before the big day.
Format to send. Save the dates can be sent as postcards, folded cards or magnets.  You may choose to include pictures from your engagement session.  Some couples choose a formal feel or match it to the look of their wedding invitations and stationery.  Others choose to express their personality with a card that is less formal.
What to say.  At a minimum, your save the dates should include the bride and groom’s names, date of the wedding and city and state of the ceremony.  We’ve included some popular wording samples to get your started:

To Have and to Hold
From This Day Forward
(Date)
(Bride and Groom)
(City, State)
SAVE THE DATE
invitation to follow 
Love is in the air…
Save our Date!
(Date)
(Bride and Groom)
SAVE THE DATE
invitation to follow 
Save the date!
(Bride’s name) 
and 
(Groom’s name)
 are getting married on 
 Wedding Date
Wedding Location
Formal Invitation to Follow
(Bride’s name) and (Groom’s name)
are tying the knot! 
 Wedding Date
Wedding Location
Formal Invitation to Follow
We are delighted to announce 
on (Date of the Wedding) 
in (Location of the Wedding)
(Bride’s name) and (Groom’s Name)
are getting married!
 Please make sure to save this date
We hope that you will be able to share in
our special day of joy and celebration 
 Formal invitation to follow
He asked … she said Yes!  
(Bride’s name) and (Groom’s Name)
will tie the knot!
(Date)
(City, State)
 Invitation to follow
Times are busy
and calendars are full
(Bride’s name) and (Groom’s Name)
want you to know
they are planning
their wedding for
(Date)
(City, State)
Invitation to follow
Save the Date
to take part in
the celebration of love
as we,
(Bride’s name) and (Groom’s Name),
exchange wedding vows
(Date)
(City, State)
Invitation will follow

Thursday, November 21, 2013

The Wedding Kiss

0180_20130526_Emerson-Enhanced ”It’s that kiss … that one you lose yourself in. You realize that you don’t want to kiss anyone else and that you are in love; the world around you disappears except for you and that person.” – Morgan Lafferty
This is never more true than the kiss you share on your wedding day.  But how much of a kiss should you have?  While it may not take as much planning as the seating arrangements, the wedding kiss is worth discussing in advance so one of you isn’t going for a peck and the other for the real deal.
Consider your own level of comfort with public affection.If this is not something you or your mate are used to, you can do a very small, brief kiss just to seal your ceremony.  If you want to show the congregation how it’s done, be sure you’re both comfortable with doing so.
Think about your family traditions.  Will seeing a big, wet wedding kiss make your grandmother faint? What is the typical wedding kiss like in the culture you both hail from? You don’t want your wedding kiss to be talked about for all the wrong reasons.
Is one of you a bigger kisser than the other? Some couples don’t see eye to eye about kissing at the wedding. She wants a big smooch; he thinks it is disrespectful, and so on. It is good to get a sense of which way things will go on the big day, before the big day.
Go For It. When everything is said and done, it is your wedding and you can kiss any way you choose. There is no right or wrong way to kiss on your wedding day. Like anything else in the ceremony, having a sense of how you would like to kiss and be kissed can relieve any “performance” pressure.
Other ways to show your excitement.  Feeling a little shy about the first kiss, in front of your family, and thephotographer and videographer?  Here are some ways you can show excitement without showing too much.
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Fist pump.  The pressure of the ceremony is off and you’re ready to have a good time.  Signal so, by showing a fist pump to the crowd.
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One Sweet Kiss.  No one can doubt the love and tenderness you share with a simple, sweet kiss.
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Do A Dip.  Add a little passion to the end of your ceremony with a quick dip to end your kiss.
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High Five.  Fun, yet sweet, show those gathered that you are on the same team and ready to celebrate it.
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Get carried away.  What better way to move on to the party than getting a little carried away at the end of your ceremony?
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