Monday, February 3, 2014

What To Do When You're Engaged


MikeStaffProductions0091_20131107_KolliasPlanning a wedding can be some of the happiest time of your life, but where do you start?  Here’s some tips to get you moving in the right direction:
Shortly After the Big Announcement
  • As you begin to have ideas about the wedding, sit down with both families to formulate a budget. Remember, parents who planned their wedding twenty or thirty years ago can be surprised by today’s costs. Expect to be flexible.
  • Decide on a date that works for both families and your work schedules.  Be aware of family birthdays, anniversaries or annual events that may cause a conflict.
12 to 18 Months Prior to the Wedding
  • Begin visiting venues!  Peak dates go quickly, so if you have your heart set on a Saturday in June, lock in your venue early.
  • If you are using a wedding planner, begin interviewing now.  They can help you with the decisions to follow.
  • Visit bridal shows, the Internet, and look in current magazines or directories for ideas for your wedding day.
9 to 18 Months Prior
  • Hire the photographer, caterer, videographer, officiant, and DJ. Prime dates book quickly, as do good vendors. The earlier you book, the better chance you’ll secure your first choice vendors.
  • Begin looking at wedding dresses.  If you are considering a custom designed dress, you’ll want to leave plenty of time for it to be prepared.
  • Schedule your engagement session with your photographer.
6 to 9 Months Prior
  • Bridal party dresses should be ordered, save-the-dates mailed, overnight accommodations reserved for wedding guests.
  • Order your wedding cake, flowers and transportation for the wedding and reception.
4 to 6 Months Prior
  • Reserve rehearsal dinner location, establish bridal registries, rent tuxedos, order wedding invitations, reserve necessary rental equipment.
2 to 4 Months Prior
  • Book your honeymoon and secure arrangements for wedding night accommodations.
  • Schedule appointments for hair, makeup, facials, massages and spa treatments
  • Order reception favors
  • Begin dance lessons if you want a choreographed first dance
2 Months Prior
  • Mail wedding invitations
  • Verify requirement for marriage license
  • Purchase bridal party gifts
  • Create ceremony program
Final 6 Weeks 
  • Confirm all vendors, finalize food and beverage choices with your caterer or reception site. Schedule a final dress fitting (tuxes for the gentlemen) and plan seating arrangements for your reception.
  • Establish a timeline for the wedding day.
  • Select songs for your ceremony and special dances
  • Schedule a consultation for your hair and makeup.  Many brides do a “dress rehearsal” to make sure they like the look.
Week of Your Wedding 
  • Confirm timeline and desired shot list with your photographer and videographer
  • Discuss song selections with your wedding DJ
  • Get plenty of sleep and practice good nutrition
  • Relax!  It’s almost time for the big day!
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